Sunday, May 31, 2009

Picture For This Day


With some of his tee-ball teammates at the game on Saturday.

May 30, 2009


[Yep, that's a shopping cart in the background. Those of you who know me know how I love shopping carts in random spots in my neighborhood. You can make out its "owner" sitting on the bleachers in the right background. He's sitting with his {I assume} homeless pal, watching kids play baseball. I was sitting in front of them for a time, trying to decide whether to say something about their use of profanity at a tee-ball game for four year olds. But as they were speaking in conversational tones and no kids were in earshot, I decided not to. I was surprised by their conversation though. It was something out of a Steve Martin film. They were talking about the issue of celebrity. Discussing MTV's role and relating anecdotes. I kid you not.

Anyway, a little local color from the Winnetka Rec Center. Enjoy.]

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

An Inconvenient Tooth...Update


Ladies and gentlemen...the tooth has left the mouth.

Kiernan did a great job this morning. I was most impressed with how he did not complain at all when he couldn't have anything for breakfast. We had been instructed not to let him have anything after midnight, even water, because of the liquid anesthesia stuff (that's the technical term) he would be drinking before the procedure. We explained that to him, and furthermore told him we would not be eating or drinking anything in the morning either (solidarity). He seemed unfazed by this in the morning. Of course this was helped by the fact that our appointment was for 8:30am. Still, I almost started crying about not getting coffee.

The oral surgeon gave Kiernan a small bit of liquid to drink that apparently tasted horrible, and then said doctor went away while we waited for it to take effect. In a few minutes Kiernan started acting somewhat loopy and drowsy. A nurse took his blood pressure and we took him to one of the rooms. Wendy got on the chair with Kiernan in her lap and he was hooked up to a heartbeat monitor before getting the nitrous. They do this with all patients; this was not particular to Kiernan. In fact, the surgeon had called Kiernan's cardiologist, the excellent Dr. Ferry, early on in the process just to discuss the procedure with him. Dr. Ferry reportedly told the surgeon that Kiernan was fine. "Just treat him like any other healthy patient." I love hearing that.

It was good news when--about a year and a half ago I think--Dr. Ferry told us we would only need to bring Kiernan in for checkups once every two years. It was an indication of how healthy he was and is. But I have to say there is a little bitter with this sweet news because we get to see Dr. Ferry so infrequently. He is just one of those people it's great to be around. Good guy.

Anyway, the surgeon (Dr. Feder...also a pretty good guy) gave Kiernan a couple shots of Novocaine (Kiernan was NOT crazy about this) and then put the mask on him so he could get some nitrous oxide. He then swabbed Kiernan's gums and went in to pull the tooth with something resembling tweezers. Kiernan cried out once and the tooth was out. Just like that. I stood off to the side, one eye on Kiernan and one on the heart monitor, trying to pretend I wasn't nervous about anything. I needn't have worried.

A few minutes and a couple of stitches later and Kiernan was in the recovery room/cubicle. He was still loopy and drowsy, but was quickly responsive to Dr. Feder's questions. He never really crossed into the surreal territory of the famous viral (and somewhat disturbing) video David after The Dentist, but he had a couple of amusing moments, like when he said Dr. Feder had four eyes.

After another check of his blood pressure we were able to take Kiernan home. Dr. Feder wanted us to get him home and get a little children's pain reliever into him before the Novocaine could fully wear off. We got home, set him up in bed with many pillows, and I made him a chocolate shake to sip (NO STRAWS!!). He tried to walk but still didn't have his sea legs, so after reading a couple of books we encouraged him to nap for a bit. After an hour or so of sleep he woke up rarin' to go.

He's doing great, but he doesn't really believe this is his tooth because it looks so odd. No matter, I'm sure this will not impact his decision to keep whatever funds the Tooth Fairy leaves with him tonight.

Monday, May 25, 2009

An Inconvenient Tooth


I've had a couple of questions about this, so I'll go ahead and post about it.

Kiernan lost his first tooth a little bit ago. Yeah, it's way too early for him to be losing his first tooth. As his final year of preschool neared its end, he informed us that he had a loose tooth. At first we thought he must be joking, or imagining it, or something, but upon close inspection it turned out he was right. So we took him to the dentist. We didn't know if this was outside the norm or not, so we made an appointment just to be safe.

His dentist told us this was not the norm. Kids don't start losing teeth until much later (say, seven years old), and if a kid is going to lose a tooth early it will not be an upper tooth. Four years old for an upper tooth was way too early. So she did an x-ray.

Turns out Kiernan has what is known as a supernumerary. Basically he has an extra tooth. It was butting in between his baby tooth and his adult tooth, so the baby tooth had to go. It fell out one day at dinner while he was eating a pear. He was very excited and the Tooth Fairy visited and everything. Anyway, his dentist suggested we consult with an oral surgeon, which we did.

He was great. He looked at the x-ray and checked out Kiernan's mouth and suggested we have the supernumerary pulled. He said we could just wait if we wanted and see if it came in and have it pulled later, but it was probable that the extra tooth would influence the development of the teeth around it. So we decided to have the tooth pulled.

This isn't that big of a deal, apparently. The supernumerary tooth is visible. It has already poked through the gum. As soon as the surgeon saw this he was clear on his recommendation because all he has to do is reach up with his instruments and pull the tooth out. No cutting or anything. Kiernan will have to undergo some sedation. This will involve some nitrous oxide as well as a liquid anesthetic that he will drink before the surgery. He'll also get some local anesthetic. I'm trying not to be nervous about all this.

Kiernan certainly isn't worried about it. He's not crazy about not getting to eat or drink in the morning, but he loved the whole Tooth Fairy visit, and he has clearly enjoyed the attention he's gotten from being the only kid in preschool with a lost tooth. It was funny to watch him preparing to see his swim teacher again, anticipating her reaction to the gap in his upper front teeth.

He goes in for the surgery in the morning. Tomorrow. I'll let you know how it goes.


[This picture taken at Sally & Layne's pool yesterday.]

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Picture of This Day


Goofing around in the pool with his godfathers. At a cookout at Sally & Layne's house.

Good times.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Friday, May 22, 2009

Picture of This Day


Last day of swim class.

Friday, May 22, 2009

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Picture of This Day


Thursday, May 21, 2009

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Adaptation


So I was getting some chores done while Kiernan noshed on his second lunch (today was apparently Hobbit Day) and read his newest Magic School Bus book, The Magic School Bus Gets Ants in Its Pants. Kiernan loves books, and he loves two kinds of books in particular. Magic School Bus books. And new books. Right now, for him, the Venn Diagram of these two things is a single circle.

Me: Please can we read something else? How about Knuffle Bunny? That's my favorite. Please?

Kiernan: Nope.

The Magic School Bus books, for those of you who do not know, are a series of books that focus on a group of kids and their science teacher, Ms. Frizzle. Whenever Ms. Frizzle needs to teach a lesson, she takes the kids on a field trip on the Magic School Bus. The bus--as its name might imply--has amazing powers that enable it to blast the kids off into outer space so they can learn about the Solar System or to shrink down to microscopic size so that the kids can explore blood cells.

The books have basically the same set of characters each time. There is a bit of cast shifting from the older books to the newer books, kind of like MASH did over the years it ran, but basically it's the same group of kids. Kiernan is keenly aware of who is who, and because of the way we read the books each of the kids has a distinctive way of speaking. When we read we must honor this, always. The girls must sound like girls and the boys must sound like boys. Arnold is always nervous sounding. Phoebe has a southern accent. Wanda has a Chinese accent. Carlos has a very hip sounding Mexican accent (Carlos is Kiernan's favorite because Kiernan thinks of him as cool--this reminds me of the boy-crush Kiernan had on his friend Kevin last year).

The pages have a particular format, as you will see below. There is usually a paragraph of text at the top of the page spoken by a random narrator kid, with quotes from some of the characters. Mom or Dad have to read that part. On the margins there are boxes that look like sheets of paper; these are short little reports different kids have written on the subject at hand. We generally only read these bits the first couple of times we read the book. We usually skip these in day-to-day reading because they bog down the story and because Magic School Bus books take awhile to read. And by "awhile" I mean forever.

In the lower half of the page you have the characters interacting, with dialogue bubbles over their heads. Kiernan reads the dialogue bubbles. He is scrupulous in the way he does the voices, too (his Arnold is particularly excellent, but I also love his Phoebe's southern accent and I'm just waiting for a call from a teacher when he tries out his Wanda some time...why I should feel this way is beyond me. We do English accents and southern accents and Scottish accents and Russian accents, why do I get skittish about the idea of working out an Asian accent? But I digress).

Boy I've gotten off course.

At any rate, these Magic School Bus books are all the rage at the Murawski house. He was reading one today.

I came walking into the kitchen, and he was doing what you see in the picture at the top of the page. He was looking down at the book, then adjusting his hands and his face. I looked down at the book, which was open to a page of a group scene which had all the kids and Ms. Frizzle and the class mascot, Liz the lizard. I suddenly realized he was posing himself like the kids in the picture. I grabbed my camera, and he struck the next pose.

Here's a picture of the page he was reading, and adapting:


I was lucky to get a picture of Kiernan's version of each of the kids, including Ms. Frizzle and Liz. Happily once Kiernan realized what I was doing he only wanted to see the pictures as he progressed, and didn't decide to run off and hide. The photoshoot became part of the event (unfortunately, in a way). This, of course, makes me think of how different cameras and pictures are for him than they were for me. Kiernan often requests to see a picture immediately after I take it (if he knows I'm taking it). "Can I see?" he will ask. And why not? All I have to do is flip around the camera and show him the display. So this is how he understands photography. Instant gratification. What a revolutionary shift from just a few years ago, when you had to wait until a whole roll of film was done to develop it. Develop it? What? And while you could get the film in one hour if you wanted to, the reality was that the film sat in a drawer until four others joined it and you made your eventual monthly trip to Costco. On foot. Through five feet of snow. Uphill. Both ways.

Anyway, Kiernan did all the characters on the page. Notice his use of props (book, cup) and costumes (hat). I'm particularly fond of the way he's sticking out his foot in his Liz the lizard pose.



Please note that I did not interfere in his interpretations of these characters in any way. I did not suggest a thing. This was totally him, from the position of his hands to the expression on his face. The only thing I directed was the photography.

Mouse over any picture in the slide show to see a character's name. See if you can match the pose to the character in the picture from the book. Also, cross your fingers that I don't get a "cease and desist" from Scholastic from having this picture posted here.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Picture For This Day


This picture is from Monday. It's a companion pic for the daily shot I posted on May 14. You can clearly see the progress.

I've never really learned how to float on my back properly. It's so cool to see Kiernan as he learns to do this. Skill acquisition...it's a beautiful thing.

Monday, May 18, 2009

Monday, May 18, 2009

Picture of This Day


At the start of swim class. He's trying to make me laugh while Teacher Leticia works with Sam. I laughed. When it was his turn to swim, he said to Teacher Leticia, "I made my dad laugh."

I took this as my cue to get out my magazine* and feign uninterest.

Monday, May 18, 2009


*Cook's Country, if you must know.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Picture of This Day


With his Nee-Nee at the zoo today.

Keep an eye on those zebras. They're so fast. They look like they could strike at any moment.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Picture For This Day


Learning to float.

May 14, 2009

A Tale of Two Pictures

Well, two pairs of pictures. But that doesn't make as nifty a title.

I am every day struck by the duality of my little boy. How he can sound so mature and articulate one minute, and how he can throw a tantrum and remind me that he is still between four and five years old the next. One minute he asks, about a character in one of his books, "Was he being sarcastic?" The next minute he is screaming in the grocery store because we won't buy him a new snack called Fruit Gushers.

Sometimes I just have to step back and tell myself, "He's only four. Relax. He's only four."

These next two pictures, from today's play date with his friend Nicholas, remind me of that.

Two little boys. Goofing around in the back yard.

Silly little boys.

Now, a couple other pictures, from the same day. The same moment, almost.


Here we have a couple of guys checking out something or other. Doesn't matter what. Two me they just look like guys in this picture. Not little kids. Guys.


It is amazing to me what a picture can capture. They just look like dudes here. Running around and hanging out and what not. In the first two pictures they are little kids being goofballs, as little kids should be.

Whenever his grandparents fret about how much he has grown since they last saw him, I understand. But I also strive to remind them that even though he can name all of the planets, and all three of the moons of Pluto [seriously...how many of you can do that right at this moment without Google?], he is still a little boy just barely removed from toddlerhood. A goofball little boy. Fascinated by the word poop. Talking to the tv while he watches"Blues Clues". Freaking out if his little stuffed friend Guinea Pig hasn't been found by bed time.

What a fascinating process.

Friday, May 15, 2009

Picture of This Day


On the kickboard.

Friday, May 15, 2009

In the Pool Again


Preschool is out. Summer is here. A month early. Thus...the return to swimming lessons.

This week Kiernan returned to the swimming school he attended last year. I was a little nervous about this as we have not had him in the water much since then. I guess I worried about regression. He was so afraid and miserable the first day of his first swim class last year. This was partly because we had not adequately prepared him for it mentally, and partly because he'd never really been in the water without one of his parents. That first class was miserable. He adjusted in rather short order, but I wondered if there would be a regression since swimming is not a regular part of his life. Unfortunately.

I needn't have worried. He was excited about going back into the pool, and about being in a swim class with his friend Sam, and about showing his swim teacher Leticia his missing tooth. He went back into the water without hesitation. It felt like a week had passed since his last class, rather than many months.

He's doing great in the class. Clearly loving it. I love watching him interact with his swim teacher and his other two classmates, Sam and a lovely girl named Sabrina. Sam and Sabrina in the pool with Kiernan. Sounds like a sitcom.

It's so cool to sit outside the pool and watch him. We're there but not really there. So we can see him being his own person. Asking questions and stating his opinions. Disclosing important information to his swim teacher about his dinner plans with Sam. Making jokes. Jokes. One of my great new joys in life is watching the development of my son's sense of humor. Hilarious. And fascinating.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Picture of This Day


Kiernan and Sam, waiting for the infant swim class to end so they can go in the pool for their class.

On the way home from swim class the other night, Kiernan was bemoaning the fact that he had to be separated from Sam.

"Why can't Sam come to my house?" he asked.

"Because it's late. It's time for dinner. Same lives that way," I said, pointing to the left. "We live that way," I said, pointing to the right.

Kiernan's reply: "Yes...but...how come Sam isn't my brother?"

Wow.

Love this kid.

Thursday, May 14, 2009